He's like a terrorist, an assasin, a "freedom fighter" who will happily sacrifice YOUR children for HIS passion.
I don't know, but I sure can use some of that black-ooze that gave Spiderman increased aggression and confidence. It made him dangerous. I'm tired of being safe.
Wow, Theoden powerful stuff!
OK, maybe this is just rambling, but I think that at some point, the bold "dangerous" move for us LBH's may be to save our families by filing for divorce from our WAW's.
By this I mean, documenting the behaviour of our WAW's, hiring the best L money can buy and going for full custody, limited contact for WAW with kids, and all financial resources of the M remaining with the kids (and us), including child support from ex-W.
I know that I would want to explore all other options before I get to this, but it would definitely shock the Hell out of the WAW and change the perspective of us as "safe". I can see 3 possible outcomes:
1. WAW is really this person she has become. Nasty legal battle, lost by LBH, lots of $ down the drain that would have been available to kids otherwise.
2. WAW is really this person she has become. Nasty legal battle, won by LBH, lots of $ down the drain that would have been available to kids otherwise.
3. WAW is shocked out of her dream world and decides to recommit to the M/family. (Don't know where this goes.)
Outcome 1. would be awful. Outcome 2. not so great either since WAW is not available for kids the way she needs to be. Outcome 3. could be great or maybe not either.
In any case, definitely a 180 which would send a clear message about how "safe" we really are.
Wonder what Frank/Amy might have to say about this, extreme version of the "After the LRT".
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Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread
