Good luck GD. Here's the key - you will be fine either way, and should (are?) preparing to handle both the best way. MY DB Coach said that when things don't go the way you hope, that is often a better (or even the best) opportunity to show your changes and true colors! Kind of like when you hadn' told W about the kidcare rafting trip arrangement, and she got mad. You never would have wanted to do anything to make her mad, but it was a blessing really.
I hope W comes around, but if she gives you the eye roll, (1) that may not be how she really feels (a very important thing to keep in mind) and (2) you have a chance their to make an impression by handling this with class, style, confidently, positively, etc.
Go fo it GD!
Nomo
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link