Wow. So, would it be acceptable DBing, or in general, to call my W's Dr. for a confidential talk about his earlier diagnosis? I am just so dumbfounded by the turn of events in our M, and her behavior, added to the long list of experiences I have had with her that seem to add up to something like BP or BPD, that I feel like perhaps he could help me understand what he saw which has taken me so long to come to terms with. With, or without me, I know she needs to get herself some help, and I know I can't save her, though if there is anything I can do from where I sit that may help her to recognize the need to save herself, then I need to know this. I still lover so very much, and though she can't see the light through the dark, I can, and I intend to keep my vows to her through better and worse.
