Am I seperated? Looking for support/advice...

[not an ex yet]

Hey there. I'm glad to hear you had a good session with the therapist. I do sort of see where he is coming from about not moving forward in your current position. Do you have any family or friends that live out of town that you could go visit for a long weekend or something? What if you took it upon yourself and said, "hey, I need to get away for a little while and I am going to go stay with so and so." Maybe having you away for four or five days will give him a little bit of time to think about things. It may not be long enough for him to realize he misses you and stop all this, but it might be enough to spark some feelings or at least a conversation.
I actually did this. When H said he wanted D, I took off a Monday and Friday from work and left and stayed with my parents for a day and then went to my sisters. When I told him I was leaving, he got mad and said that I needed to stay home and be at work, not running away feeling sorry for myself. I told him I didn't feel sorry for anyone, I was getting away to have some fun and not think about it and it really wasn't his business anymore what I was doing. He apologized later for jumping my case, but it gave us both some time away from the situation. I didn't call him the whole time I was away.
Anyway, that is my .02 cents.