GD and J - Thanks very much for the feedback and encouragement. No, I was referring to handyman-type maintenance and improvement work around the house. We have a cleaning service for the housework. Re strategy, it's just part of going dark. And yes, I do want her to understand that extra burdens are part of the cost of her OM and this divorce.

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M 63
W 40
M 4/91
S14/D9
bomb 7/6/07
D filed 8/3/07 final 2/4/08
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