SD - that's a really good point. I guess the difference is the "knowing it's wrong" vs. justifying that it's not wrong... in Care's case (like mine) they don't even seem to know it. But I guess deep down they probably do.

And you're right, we sure don't have any control over it anyway!

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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