Why? Because if it wasn't wrong, what's to prevent it from happening again??
Nikki, you know I love you darling, but even if he admits it's wrong, there's NOTHING TO PREVENT IT FROM HAPPENING AGAIN. You've seen the "wrong" things people do all the time on this board...again and again. They know it's wrong, but it feels better than where they were at.
There are no guarantees...but if you continue to focus your attention on those things you DON'T want, those are exactly the things you will attract into your life. You can't control what your H does; you can only control what you do. Let go of your fear. I'm not saying it's easy, but if you want to be happy, if you want to be open to working on your M with your H, it's what you have to do.
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
