No free fall, why do you say that? Ask yourself this question, "if what I am about to do or say is not going to help me or the R, why/dont do it". It may not work everytime, but I have found it does work most of the time.
See my post on the "devil and angel" moment I had. My C said that was a revelation and I should think about that a lot.
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Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.