The therapist has again brought up the time thing. He asked me how long I will allow this to go on like this. How long will I continue to live in the same house with him, where I don't know each day if he is going to come in the door and tell me he is moving out or filed for divorce. Each day where I try to talk or share things with him about my day and I get nothing in return. Each night where he sleeps in a separate bed from me and shows me no affection whatsoever. When he has not given me one verbal recogonition at all that he thinks we have any chance to work through this.
S You sound impatient like the rest of us. Think about it, it has not been that long. Your para above from the therapists caused me to quote it, which I dont usually do. Be careful with your therapist comments. It strikes me that this therapist may push you to an ultimatum to get off "dead center". IT NEEDS TIME, PLEASE GIVE IT SOME TIME.
That is why everyone here says focus on you. It gets easier. Harder when there is a bad / neutral interaction, for sure. But just know that we all have experienced what you are dealing with.
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
