CVA,
I don't know your W's whole story, but it sounds similar to my W's. I have thought for some time that she is suffering from Depression (relatively mild), but cannot see a way in our sitch to talk to her about seeing a Dr. Maybe in your sitch this could be possible? Anyway, DR has a good intro to depression and there are other good books out there which might be a help in determining if this is a possibility (I am reading Talking to Depression by Claudia Strauss).

Otherwise, keep up the DBing and watching for those baby steps!

SD

Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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