I'm starting the journey home!

[dlt1]

Be there for her. Let her feel the guilt, you have to let her hurt. No tell her it's all OK, just listen and validate. But let her hurt. I'd say that's how you build. Hopefully it lasts a couple days, then tell her that you forgive her.
I wish my W would tell me how she is hurting. Hoping to get it all out in the open this weekend! I'm scared more than I have ever been in my life.
Good luck Atlas!