During private sessions, are any of the past incedents and things that upset you written down and given to your spouse to read? I mean, how do you move forward, without that? I know I don't understand all this. For example, when my wife talks to me, she is aggressive and her tone is raiesed and talks in anger. I don't like that and I am unresponsive to it anyway.
Another example; my wife would always critize everything I did, and I mean everything (i.e. it takes me too long to cut the grass, you fold the laundry and make too many piles, you need to measure exactly how much flour and sugar when you make cookies, etc. (stupid stuff I know)).
Her complaint is I don't appreciate everything she does, most things a woman would complain about. Me, I don't get respect from her and her family.
