You are right about us being better people because of our sitch's. I have been become much more aware of my environment and how I and others interact within it. I can relate to others emotional pain and suffering in ways that I could never had done in the past. Despite my D my faith is stronger through all of this. I now have a strong group of friends that will hold me accountable when it is called for or lift me and affirm me as a man when needed. There is a whole lot of good that has come from this terrible sitch. It is to bad my W doesn't want to share in all of this with me.