Not now. I am living with my brother. However every other weekend I stay at the marital home so that I can look after the kids (my weekend). Whilst she goes and does her thing. Probably with OM I expect. This way we are hoping to get the kids used to the idea of "every other weekend".
She has already said that she wants a divorce. So I have to take that at facr value. However I have asked her to hold off as we are in the process of buying different houses, and waiting until after that is preferable for me. I have recently had a car accident as well so am already dealing with three different lawyers, I really don't want to get involved with another!
I have pretty much decided that I don't want to be with her as well after last weekend. However who knows how I will feel once I have calmed down.
I have been informed by the estate agent that the chain should be ready to proceed within the next 5 days on our houses so I really can't wait for that. At least I shall be able to get on with my life, without the worry of being hurt every five seconds.
I know she doesn't intentionaly go out of her way to hurt me. However I would say that she is very careless!
