Like we never loved before 4

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Thank you all for the support.

Yesterday evening he spewed at me again. I was finally able to stand firm and solid against him.

When he was a work and called me to see how I was we talked about how I took the kids to Chilis for lunch and bought them the TMNT movie. The kids were sad because my IL's left yesterday and that is understandable. So I took them to lunch and got them a movie. Well that mad him mad because of the financial situation. I hardly ever spend money on anything that is not considered a necessity. The day before he went on his business trip he bought them each a toy and then when he came home he bought them another one. But that was ok because the one before was because they were sad that he was running out at night and not spending time with them and the other one was because he was away.

So he feels it is ok for him to buy things and spend money but goodness if I do. And I bought one movie for them to share. So this started a fight about custody and him telling me I was a bad mother and all kinds of other crap.

After I made dinner for the kids I took the boys outside to play. Now earlier in the day he told me he would watch the kids while I went to do groceries. So he came outside and told me he was going to take our D to the movies. I asked him when because I still had to do groceries. He went off on me and told me that I had all day to do groceries. So I nicely reminded him that he told me he would watch the kids if I wanted to do them at night. So he was mad and screamed at me to just go. So I said ok and got me keys and purse and went to my car. My S3 wanted to go with me so I took him. Then my H said he was going to take the other two to a movie. I told him that I did not think the movie was appropiate for our S5 and he said well I am taking him anyway. So I said ok do what you think is best, but I do not think it would be a good thing.

Anyway, I think I finally am able to detach for a while. So off I went to the grocery store.

This is funny:
There was an issue before about how long it took to go shopping. So our C told me to just let him know how long I would be gone.
So I called him on the phone as soon as I left.

Me"Oh, I forgot to tell you I would be about 2-2 1/2 hours"
Him "Pi$$ off" click of phone.

So I called him back.
Me "I think I may have hit a bad spot and lost the call, I just wanted to let you know I would be gone 2-2 1/2 Hours"

Him "I do not care, do what you want" In a mean tone.
Then he went into the movie again. I told him that I do not agree but he should be able to do what is best for the kids.
Then I hung up.


Well, he called me again at the store and I kept the same posture and did not let his hanging up bug me. He hung up on me once and then within minutes called me back.

Then he took the kids to the movie and when he came home he wanted to talk to me. He was back to being nice and telling me he does not want to hurt me and he hates that this does hurt me. I just remained strong and agreed with him.

He did not like this.

I have to go because I am having a phone session with my Insurance. They have a new depression hotline that is like a having a session with a C.

Mimi