This is why so many people give up because the road back can be twice as hard unless both are committed to it.
You aren't kidding, TGF. I really wonder if I have what it takes to stay in this thing. I know it is going to get worse, not sure how and when, but if my timetable is any indication it will be soon.
I'm sorry for what you are going through. When do you know that it isn't MLC and just a bad marriage? I keep wondering if he is just really unhappy and I am using MLC as an excuse...