When things were real bad early in the year, from the time I announced leaving until the time I did was only about a week. The reason I hurried and it could be the same for your H, is I need to get on with my life. This is my life now, I hate it but I might as well get use to it. Their also becomes a belief that if one is not faced with a problem every day it will go away.
I do not know how long it will take, but if you back off and just deal with you and the kids he will probably come to realize running from the issue doesn't help, in fact for most it makes it worse.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
