Morgan and lwb, I am very sorry for the added stress at an already stressful time. Do your elder relatives know whart is going on in your lives?
Morgan, I have also heard from friends that their marriages were stronger after reconciliation, post affair etc. It may be a generational thing though because women really did not have choices like we do nowadays.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."