I am amazed how you took the bull by the horns in confronting H about the OW. What was your tone when this discussion went on? Sounds like it really jarred H (was it really dead air for 4-5 minutes?!)
You always sounds so strong, sunny -- it really is inspiring! I can totally tell that you are one independent woman, and that you're truly going to be "better than OK" if your M doesn't work out.
Sorry about your dad, too. My mom died of cancer back in 2000. I was a complete mess for about 9 months. Of course, I was only 21 and wasn't nearly as independent as you are, but I just want to tell you to really take good care of yourself and surround yourself with good friends as you go through all of this. It sounds like H understands how important this event is and will be in your life, which is great to see too. Now, if he'd just get the rest of his head out of his arse...
Thanks for checking in on me and providing ideas and support. You've been such a great friend here for me, and I sincerely appreciate that!
