How Can I Possibly Restore THIS?

[mkultra]

I think sometimes people go to separation because they feel tired as you said. Then they realize that separation does not really solve any of the past problems. We have a lot in common. I can see these patterns in both of our relationships. Try to stay focused and positive. Avoid any battles and validate his feelings.

It is so hard to know what path to take. Communication is key, but both of you may have different truths.

It is important to have faith but you need to work hard too!

I thought a separation would be a temporary solution also. I wanted my angry, depressed H to move out before things got any worse. Guess what? Many things got worse and we are not working together but against each other.

Married folks need to be on the same team so be as supportive as possible. He may have trust issues.