Thank you Donna, yes my H would do anything to win back my "feelings" again. He did all the wrong things at first and it was driving me nuts and almost out the door. But now, he has backed off and giving me space and time to get through some personal stuff on my own. We are beginning to talk...not about the MR, but just like we use to do...which is a good sign right now. As one great person, that I admire on the board, told me to go with the actions and the feelings will eventually follow. I believe that...it's just that naturally I want it the easy way. But, it will happen. My H and I feel in love when I was only 16 and we have a lot of years together (history and memories) and we have one great thing in common...our faith. We are going to make it. I am working hard....reading lots of books and especiall the posts on here....and it's working. I appeciate your comments and please come by again.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
