Thank you so much for that informative piece you sent me. I am actually looking forward to Christmas holidays this year because that will be my 6 month stop. I will make it...I am resolved, with God's strength to do it. I know and understand from personal experience about the grieving process. Every night I went to bed and sobbed for the OM. That is....the fantasy OM I had made him out to be in my own mind. Some great people on this board caused me to see him in a different light. Until I could face that truth, it would hurt my feelings for anyone to say something negative about him. After all, he was my Knight in shining armour. So, I am looking at the day after day...untill that 6 months has gone by. However, I am hoping that our restoration will come more quickly than even that. My H has been understanding about the "grieving process" and he doesn't ask questions, but he just quietly and patiently gives me time to get through it. At least, now, I'm not crying for the OM and "dreaming" about him all the time, so I think that is progress. But, I realize that I am still fragile and that by tomorrow the devil could have me in a tale-spin again. Hopefully, I will know what to look for and be wiser and stronger and will kick him (the enemy) out of my way and proceed with my life that God has designed for me.
Thank you again, and please feel free to send me copies of any of that could information. I read every word of it. It was great.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
