Thanks so much to everyone who has responded so far; I'm grateful. Another question has arisen. I'm supposed to take the kids out of town for a week next month, and now I'm wondering whether that's a good idea. I have no idea whether DH is still in touch with the woman he has a crush on (I don't think his feelings are for her specifically, but rather she may have been part of the catalyst that jump-started his wonderings about us). Should I go and let him do whatever he's going to do anyway, or is that just making it a bit too convenient?
I picked up a book for DH today that I knew he'd like. He said, "Interesting," and walked away with it. I was so sad, and then I realized that I'd been hoping for a specific reaction. Wrong! I felt better when I reminded myself that I'd picked up the book because I knew he'd like to read it, not so he'd sweep me up in his arms and declare his renewed love. Would've been nice, though.
I'd love to hear feedback about this and the physical affection stuff (in the previous post). Anyone have any nuggets to share? Thanks again.
