Let's break this down Nomo style or should I say MoPo style? 1. Early AM workout 2. Pre-workout phone support 3. Bkfst w/ CVA 5. Lunch w/ Mg Ptnr of rival law firm and run in w/ W 6. Party w/ SD 7. Posting throughout the day
Whats next, post midnight counseling for one of us in need?
UDM Love ya C
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
Thanks bb, Sunny and CVA. I had a great time with SD, his bro, his uncle and bunch of his long time friends last night. Really great group of guys.
Also had a JC session this morning that went well, I thought. I will journal that shortly. I had wanted to post my latest position on the whole OM thing (basically, I had come to the point where I just had to trust her and more than that accept it wasn't anything I could control so I needed to move on). The topic was discussed this morning, so it'll be in my report and it pretty much lays it out there as to where it is and what I have to do (I consider it to be good news, BTW). Finally, I need to journal my DB Coaching Session, but that will take a back seat for now.
Thanks for al lthe support, Nomo
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link
Wow! Great job Nomo. You are an inspiration to us all. Definitely got your W thinking. Probably got her thinking about what your thinking
I always forget to ask what your tag name means "Nomopo"?
No really update on my sitch. My w said the other day that she is 99% sure she wants the D. Not sure how it came up. I felt like Jim Carrey in Dumb and Dnumber - "So your telling me there's a chance".
Hi. Thanks for the support. I agree with what Sunny said about what your W told you. And as for the 99%, you have to ignore. Could be true, might not be true, you can't know so let it go because thinking about it will just wear you down.
Nomo
PS - well, here's the story on my name. MoPo is one of a number of variations on a nickname I had. When I registered, I didn't feel like me or very good about me so I went with No mopo or nomopo. I have told several people the story, and several of those people have taken to calling me MoPo. I understand why they would do that, and I am touched by and grateful for the thoughtfulness of that gesture. But, having said that, I really like and prefer Nomo now. As I told CVA this morning on his thread, (1) I think I have had an awakening and this is the new me (a new person - Nomo ), (2) even though the no was added for a different reason when I picked my name, I think the no is still right because I have left (or I am leaving) some bad characteristics behind and (3) there is a small chance W would see and recognize MoPo.
PSS - There are like 26 people on these boards right now. Wow! And, as usual, a few newcomers every single day.
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link
I was thinking the same thing too of how really sad this is with the number of people going thru this. I was on a yahoo group first called don'twantdivorce and the new people joining there was really high compared to the other yahoo groups that I am on.
What has happened to our society anymore where people would just rather leave than live and learn especially when kids are involved. Yes I screwed up, yes you screwed up, now that we realize this let's try and work things out. Why don't the WAS care what this will do to the children.
Last edited by Kelley; 08/09/0711:00 PM.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley
Wow Nomo that was really awesome of you to shake the OM's hand and hold tough. WAY TO GO
Question: I know DR didn't cover this at all but what are your thoughts on the WAS seeing the LBS with an OM or OW. Do you think that could shock them into feeling a tinge of jealousy? Right now when they are with an OP they think that they have no feelings at all for you. Do you think if they could feel a little bit of jealousy that they would wake up and realize that they do have some feelings for you or could that just justify them staying with the op?
Last edited by Kelley; 08/09/0711:14 PM.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley
