It's like we want to be told why we might be unf*ckable so we have some hope of fixing it.
You replace "unf*ckable" with anything else....I know I had the same problem in my R. I wanted to believe there was something wrong with me because that meant I could fix it. If my H was just an @ss, there's not a whole lot I can do to change that right? I agree that although this BB is wonderful, it can encourage one to take on more than their fair share of responsibility for the problems in their R's.
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
