Yes, it does hurt. If you bring it up to her, it will hurt worse, I promise you. If you bring it up and she still won't wear them, where does that leave you? Be smart here. Remember how we talked about how you just have to do it? Read DR again. It's hard and it sucks. I know...Trust me. If you bring it up to her, you are asking for disaster, and then how will you feel about your actions? Don't be tempted. Just know that letting it go is the thing to do. If she wears them around you, you're doing better than me. My W won't wear them at all. If she remembers to wear them around you, then that means she's thinking of your feelings. She's trying not to hurt you more. Let her have that. It may be small, but it's something.
