It should bother you that he is acting disrespectful. Respect is such an important part of a M.
Also KEEPING THE FAITH- sorry to hear about H and OW going away together on anniv. Jerk! THat broke my heart for you. I think that people who partake in affairs just have such a low self image they almost attract the other people to them JUST to make themselves feel better and more....themselves, if that makes any sence? BUt I actually think it is these people who Truly DO NOT KNOW WHO THEY ARE! It is the spouses who forgive and the spouses who don't and move on that are the bigger people EVERY TIME and also the people who know themselves! HANG IN THERE!
Me:33; Ring on 5/17/97 H:33; Ring off 5/31/07 Together:13years Married: 10 ("celebrated" 10th after he moved out Bomb Dropped: New Year's Eve '07 Moved out: 5/4/07 Filed: 3 weeks later S: 3 D&S(twins):1