I have been laid up with the flu a couple of days , not too good . Asked W to come by and help with Dinner Kids last night which she did so willingly. Now over the last couple of days I made a couple of changes to my room ( used to be our room ) nothing major just an $18 print for the wall and new bed cover was half price cost about $80. W come in to bring me some water and instantly gets angry says "talk about a slap in the face" then " I can see you have moved on" then leaves before I can say anything. Here is poor me in pain have been in bed for 48hrs , cant eat and she opens with an attack.
later I got her to come in and talk , I said there was no underlying reason for the purchase other than saw it , liked it and bought it. she was not listening as usual. Its actualy one her traits which is infuriating and thats making her own mind up about why someone has said / done something and refusing to listen to that person when she confronts them. Then it came
" you have everything , the house the kids , everything , you get a new phone , do up the room , I have nothing ." " You write up how we are going to split things and if I agree I will sign it" . I said I asked for none of this , it was your decision , then she "said you made me leave"
Thats the last we spoke I didnt have the energy . So now shes been on her own a month she is getting Jealous and angry .
