please help with advice, new here, H in mlc

[HBT]

This may sound elementary, but as of today I don't know how to act when h is in the house. Normally, we watch tv, talk about our day, kids etc. Do I steer clear of him now? I've JUST been cut off from his touch, I mean anything personal: winks, ILY, but taps, everything! Where does that go????? How does it just stop??!! I'm finding this so hard to deal with; we've always been really touchy feely and romantic. I'm already in withdrawal, please help!