My above post was lame because I forgot to add the part that goes OR you could just leave MsHD and become instantly f*ckable just the way you are. We're all kind of masochistic on this BB. It's like we want to be told why we might be unf*ckable so we have some hope of fixing it. If I had never joined this BB, I would probably have just left my miserable 2bx lost a few lbs., got my hair done and bought a couple hot dresses and declared myself quite f*ckable like every other woman on the planet who finds herself single again for any reason. Because I spent so long on this BB, I convinced myself that I had some mysterious anti-f*ckability syndrome. Before my marriage I never felt unf*ckable except for the usual temporary bad hair day type reasons. Has any HD person who participated in this BB or had a LD spouse who participated in this BB and ended up getting divorced had trouble getting laid post-SSM ?
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver