I would like everyone's opinion on this from today.
First of all, I know what I did today is against DB and may be seen as pursuing, but I just can not see any happiness in H and just wanted to see where he was in his thinking.
We were texting back and forth about the arrangement with the kids, who picks up, drop off etc.
I asked him, can i ask you a question? H: yes M: Do you ever miss us? H: (after ten minutes) ...not as of yet M: Thanks for your honesty.
I honestly dont think he is being honest with me or even himself, I can see in him that he does miss us, he is just still scared of going back to the way things were. but i wanted him to hear that i trust him, and believe his feelings.
i am reading what he replied, that he either a. just does not want to admit it to me. or b. does, not yet, but is still on the fence, and hopes that it will come sooner or later.
either way, is this a positive? i know not to read to much into it, and i know this tells me he is not ready to even consider R or M talk, but it makes me think he is thinking about things?
