Fearless, of course I know I'm fcukable, but feeling good about that is more difficult when no one is fcuking you than it is to feel good about being beautiful, talented, or appreciating one's other good qualities when alone.
My point was that the quality of being fcukable (or being marriageable, for that matter) is by definition something that is validated in relationship to someone else, like partner dancing, or singing a duet, or riding on a bicycle built for two.
Like playing tennis. I can know I'm a good tennis player but to KNOW it, I have to play tennis with someone. Otherwise it's just theoretical. If I know I'm a good pianist, but I have no piano, it's just theoretical.
Let's not nitpick this to death.
As I said on Mojo's thread, I know I'm fcukable, but I can't fcuk myself.
