ok, I have been doing some research via books and net. I am convinced that W suffers from Borderline Personality Disorder and/or bipolar, which her Dr already diagnosed last year. I also see that I have become truly co-dependent on fixing her problems. I think if we could get into counseling, we could save our M. How do I even suggest this to my W, given that she is on a a mission to D, is saving $$$ for an apt and has made it clear it is over? She makes $10/hr and works full time, has only two small monthly bills, yet she hasn't saved enough for a place yet? Could she be stalling?
