I need some advice.

Kiddos just got home from mini vacation w/H. They went to a professional baseball game w/his brother and brother's girlfriend.

My son told me H cussed a lot during the game. Said he was drunk. Son tends to stretch the truth, but it scared me. D8 told me H told son to "Get your a** back here". This was in front of his uncle.

This is so out of character for the H I knew. I'm shocked. Should I say something to him? I know it will tick him off and he'll jump all over me. Don't know what to do here.

Why does it have to be so damn hard?


Me-BS 38
X-WS 36
Separated 11/15/2006
Filed for D 8/1/2007
Divorce Final 12/21/2007
S13, S13 (twins), D9
Married 13 Yrs
Together 20 Yrs