I think you should not stand for her using your (your and wives) money on OM, if that is what she is doing. Also she can not have both you and him. If she will not decide then you need to do it for her. It not not healthy for you or your kids to have you and the OM both coming and going from the same house. I take it you guys are living under the same roof?
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
