. My XH's main/only? complaint leading up to the beginning of the affair was that I was not "happy" enough. Odd because I didn't feel unhappy at all except for not liking my job. The more I insisted I was not unhappy the more he pushed that I was. Obvious projection now that I understand it.
It seems to me that he was either being dishonest with himself or dishonest with you but I don't know how you could ever tell the difference. My 2bx once told me that I didn't act like a woman who wanted sex. Probably the same sort of obvious projection.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
