Lillie,

i just read your post on Mojo's thread.

Yes I know I am missing the point and that's what I am trying to understand.

So to be clear, as a young woman I would not be able to know that I was a marriageable type of woman UNLESS a man marries me?? I felt like I knew I was going to want to be married and would be a good wife BEFORE anyone asked me to marry them.

I knew I was hireable for jobs before I got a job offer.

Is this the concept we are talking about or am I still missing it??



But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus