thanks. that's what everyone keeps telling me. its hard, though. even now, I'm the one who makes them eat their veggies and clean their rooms...he's the one who feeds them junk food and every weekend is practically a festival. and trust me, if he and ow marry, they will have major $$$ to play with...who wants to hang with mommy when daddy has a pool and tennis court?
but hopefully that stuff won't matter in the end.
One night one of H's female friends was visiting him (big bon fire party) and tucked my baby into bed, read her a story, etc. Ticked me off to NO END (especially considering SHE was one of our issues...)
D tells me how nice she is, etc.
I told her - well it's easy to be nice when you don't have to do the hard stuff like mommy does. It's easy to be fun when you don't have to make your little one take a bath, brush her teeth, etc....
She actually got that.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
(especially considering SHE was one of our issues...)