Don't send the letter. Especially DON'T criticize her choice of OM (which you aren't 100% positive of,right?). Look, if you can't do this because you are 100% sure that you're W is seeing another man and you need to tell her that. Then think that through for at least a few days, then do it. Just state the facts, don't criticize her or the OM. Doing so is criticizing her choice and that's not going to help you out at all.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
