Schnarch & Self-validation/ Answer to Cobra

[Heywyre]

I may be naive or optimistic but for me to know what is possible with work is motivational at least

I don't think you are naive - but in order for something to be possible, particularly in a R, there has to be TWO people willing to do the "work". A lot of the people on these boards are the only ones doing the work and not seeing results for obvious reasons. Some are expecting their S to do the work and not looking inside themselves to see what it is THEY need to do. It is a VERY long road sometimes and not always clear

Also, a SSM is not always necessarily about poor communication skills