I don't know about you, but I would say the majority of the people on these boards have "dysfunctional" relationships to some degree so does it really apply?

I don't know because I haven't read it yet. It seems to be talked about a lot here so I am not sure what it means by "non-dysfunctional."

I may be naive or optimistic but for me to know what is possible with work is motivational at least. I have never been in a SSM but I guess I would hope that offering a glimpse into non-SSM relations would be helpful especially since many still have most of the same communication problems as SSMs. I know sex/ML/desire all seem like huge issues but you might be surprised to find out that other marriages have just as big of problems surrounding a wife not keeping a clean house, a guy who loves playing golf, watching football, etc., etc.



But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus