thanks mike. I know he's not doing any of the skimming money stuff, because I do all the bills/regular banking. and nope, nothing on his credit report (I keep track of that, too, normally, so not weird that I pulled it. I do all the taxes, etc, etc, etc). honestly, most of their relationship has been expensed...all on the company, so to speak. nice, isn't it? but its actually normal for this company to have a lot of entertainment/restaurant/bars/even hotel stuff.
he's been in charge of the investements (mostly thru his work) so that is where I feel like I need to get a good understanding as to what we have/where it all is. I guess I just am starting to think I am being too trusting, and I will be blindsided soon. I do think guilt is what is keeping him out of the money game so far, but wondering how much longer that guilt will last. guessing OW will be whispering in his ear and such. I think I will open that checking acct in my name, just to be on the safe side.
Last edited by morgan; 08/08/0708:01 PM.
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