Am I seperated? Looking for support/advice...

[not an ex yet]

H got an apartment not far from our house. He was able to work it out through a friend who works at the complex that he doesn't have to pay rent, he just helps with the maintenance and up keep at the complex. So as hard as it is, at least we don't have the extra financial pressure, he still gives me the same amount of his pay that he always did.
I tried to be there and be "helpful" on the day he moved out. At first I didn't handle it very well but once I calmed down and accepted that he was still going no matter what I did, I was glad I was there. I had moments of breaking down and crying, then I would pull it together and be fine. He said I was making him feel guilty and my only response was, "gee, I'm sorry! By all means let me make this as easy on YOU as possible!" He didn't say anything to that. He was very affectionate and believe it or not we had a nice time together that day. He even came home that night and spent the night with me. The hard part was the next day when he actually stayed there (at his apt).
Anyway, I am getting off track again. We have gone out together a few times when the kids where with grandparents, and he has either stayed at home or I have stayed with him at his apartment. Since we have kids though we sometimes spend time together as a family on weekends and when the kids go down for a nap we have some alone time where we have "napped" together.
My thread is under Need help...have I already blown it with H?
Good luck with the new therapist, let us know how it goes!