Maybe just a wacky little theory but it seems to me that both of your wives have strong but opposing personalities. Maybe you've been trying to beat MsHD at her own game a little too much and you might do better by playing it more like your ex might, if you can construct that in a way that wouldn't be dysfunctional. MsHD is like SuperCop and you are not quite SuperCop. Maybe you should be SuperRobber instead. That might be more sexy. Does this make sense?
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
