Yes you are right about problem solving. But it's both and she readily admits we need to work on communication.
What's really funny is when we talk and work on things she feels a great deal better. Unfortunately I almost have to force the issues in order for action to happen. If I don't she continually avoids and ultimately never feels better because the issue never got addressed.
You did hit the nail on the head about frustration. It's been a very, very frustration ride. Things appear to be on the mends then boom she withdrawals. Strangely she's said on a number of occasions that she wants to fall back in love with me, she would like us to be together again, etc. She's just not willing to do the work, at least right now.
Well we'll see what she says in about 2.5 hours.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
