OMG Bob does that hit it right on the head. I can't believe how accurate that is. My H friend told me I needed to read Al Anonn that he and his wife went thru it because he was an alcoholicbyt he said his sister wasn't and had the same actions as he did. He said the same thing about detaching and finding your self just like everyone tells you to do. This is really good Thank you for finding this and sharing it. I am going to print it off and try to read it often. I have some really good CD's that I have been listening to.
It is so hard to find yourself again when you have formed yourself around him and the kids and life in general. You loose that way to recognize and set goals and just find out who you are. I thank you again for the help. I think all of us should read this. Its like the cd i just listen to. It said lost love is one of the basic fears we face. We have to face that we can get a long with out love to conquer that fear. Detaching is kinda the same.
Thank you so much I really appreciate it. I had better get back to work.
