PS: dunno if this hurts or helps, but... "havent started R yet"? I think that having sex, counts as "started R". I seem to recall you mentioning just a week or two ago, about him not being quite so happy with her already.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
