Dom I think she's just trying to avoid it all and hopes it all goes away somehow or is miraculously fixed. She avoids conflict if she can. So I sent her an email and said "So I am to assume right now you aren't interested in attending the retrouvaille weekend on the 14th. I understand it was a bit sudden and all. I thought it an opportunity that we should at least look at and that's why I brought it up. That said, yes I am interested in hearing your thoughts and feelings."
She replied her trip was around two events on the 11th and 14 and said nothing more.
I replied "Well when I saw the dates I figured this might conflict so don't worry I'm not upset or anything like that. Just surprised you just sent the calendar appointment and didn't say anything otherwise. That's all.
Still looking forward to catching the movie this afternoon. :-)"
She's not sent an email or text about it since. But did text me a thanks after I sent a text saying I had the movie tickets.
Classic avoidance move on her part. I'm expecting that she'll say she didn't want to discuss it while at work. This if you ask me is a classic example of why we need to go to something like retrouvaille. We have to learn how to communicate!
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
