Am I seperated? Looking for support/advice...

[Not Much Left]

Sorry I misread that.
On the Love side of things, yes those go away when no one is working at it which is why love is a verb, not a noun.

One thing I say over and over, if YOU change, the R HAS to change. Not saying it will work, but there is something to be said for "killing w/ kindness". Dont have to be falling all over someone, but as a friend would do. How can you be mad at someone for being super nice to you? A WAS can of course because it is unnatural behavior from the LBS, but eventually, if it goes on long enough, it HAS to have a positive reaction and if nothing else the R will change, period.

Make sense?