I live in upstate NY. Only up near Canadian border in a town near Pulaski Ny.
Sounds like you are doing great.
I too sometimes want to know what the heck went on in my H's mind and with the EA he was in but i am waiting for a while longer before i bring up R talk with him.
Have a good time
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez